"What is your image of God?" is a question which is often asked on retreats. We know the "right" answer will say things like God is loving, kind, and forgiving. However, sometimes beneath the surface, there are other, unacknowledged images which we actually operate from, but which are different to our professed image. These operative images of God are important to uncover, acknowledge and deal with, for sometimes, especially if they are of a harsh, judgemental or controlling God, they can undermine our faith, our spirituality, and our sense of self. Noreen Wilkie Au develops this idea in her book God's Unconditional Love: Healing our Shame